"Get Out of My House!"

Who pops over to someone's house without calling first? I have a huge problem with this. I have always made it very clear to my family and friends that they are not to come unless they call first. I am super anal about this rule. If you show up unannounced, I am literally going to treat you like shit. I do not care who you are. My aunt thinks she can show up here whenever the hell she wants to, and I am about done with all the bullshit. This is my house now. I do not need her coming over and critiquing how I take care of my home or decorate it. I don't fucking care if your Lemon Tree is dead because IT NEVER GREW LEMONS! People and their little bubbles trapped in their fantasy world. Yes, my house is a hot mess with toys everywhere, the drive way is full of bikes, the back yard is full of baseball equipment, and the kitchen always has a few dirty dishes because the midgets eat all day long. She lived in this bigger than 2200 square foot home and lived in one room. Her house could not get dirty she never lived in it. When you have a 6 & 8 year old running around, things get dirty! She is trying to act like she's my landlord, I'm going to start treating her like one. I will start by getting the hot tub guy come out and fix it, and I will forward her the bill. I am also not going to do any home improvement things she wants done until she understands she WILL NOT try to run my life. I should have never stayed in Texas! I should be in Colorado where I want to be!